First impressions count for a lot. Can't put the toothpaste back in the tube now can we. It's not what you say, but HOW you say it. Welcome.
It was between me and him..you didn't need to be rude...but as you say " you can't put the toothpaste back in the tube"....
I just had a birthday yesterday and I am now 6 years old. Looks like the Rainman has some catching up to do!